Comparing Yourself To Others

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“Comparison is the thief of joy.” — Theodore Roosevelt

 

It’s the end of the summer. You’re back in the city and the school is about the start. You are in your favorite coffee shop with your friends catching up. Everyone is talking about their summer. One of your friends is talking about an internship they did over the summer that helped them make important industry connections. You spent most of your summer working as a waitress, and while it helped you make some money, it wasn’t exactly a step towards your dream job. Another friend is telling you about how she looked into her grad school options and she now knows what program she wants to apply to. You thought you wanted to give school a break after graduating and work for a while, but after hearing your friend talk passionately about her grad school plans, you aren’t so sure anymore. Maybe you want to do grad school after all? Your other friend tells that he decided to move back home at the end of this school year because he already has a job waiting for him. You realize you have no idea where you will be working, if you want to stay in the city or if you will be moving back home. After saying your goodbyes, you leave the coffee shop feeling completely drained and confused.

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Networking 101

credit to: https://eocc.co/professional-networking-dos-and-donts/

Whether you are a new graduate or still in college sifting through your career options, networking is a significant part of the job search. Becoming comfortable with networking is extremely important because the right contacts open the door to new opportunities. I have been working on my networking skills for some time now, and while I still have a long way to go, I did manage to learn a few things over the past couple of months. So whether you are reaching out to an alum or cold-calling professionals working in industries you are interested in, here are some tips on how to connect with people who can help you grow.

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A Letter to My First-Year Self

credit to: https://www.coachingpositiveperformance.com

Dear First-Year Self,

First of all, choosing McGill was definitely the right decision. You will see that it won’t be smooth sailing, and you are going to have doubts along the way, but you will leave them all behind. Looking back now, I can definitely say that starting from scratch in a city you’d never been to before will definitely give you a hard time, but I promise it will get easier.

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Stages of the Post-Undergrad Life

Post-undergrad life can be confusing for everyone, especially until you at least know what you want to do next. As a recent graduate who completed her program in December and got the diploma to prove it just last week, I’ve had time do some research and self-reflection since December. I’ve come to the realization that post-undergrad life consists of different stages until you find your way, especially if you are stepping into the real world a little uncertain as to what you want to do with the rest of your life. If you already have a plan or a job lined up, then that’s amazing! The truth is, though, about two-thirds of college grads struggle to launch their careers, making life after graduation very disorienting, confusing, and even disappointing. I can assure you, looking at not just me but also what my friends are going through, everyone is more or less experiencing the same thing. (more…)

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